Marriage Defined and a Commitment Beyond
Sat, Dec 8, 2018
Reconciliation in Syria, why not in the US?
Tue, Apr 10, 2018
My Move and Reconciliation Plans
Sun, Mar 25, 2018
You would not exist
Sat, Dec 23, 2017
Waterboarding Offer
Sun, Dec 17, 2017
Broken Together
Fri, Dec 8, 2017
Who loves you…
Sat, Dec 2, 2017
Do you bow the knee to the Lord or the Institution
Sat, Nov 25, 2017
Reconciling with Jim Cross, Sr. ● A Priority!

The dialog continued with Jim Cross, but he has again left the table. Please implore him to return. His son-in-law is at the table waiting.

Meadowview Inquisition, learning from the Spanish Inquisition?.
If your Bible has 1Co6 in its entirety, Praise the Lord!  It seems it has been removed from those in Lexington, NC.  Consider the shameful (1Co6:5) saga of the Meadowview Inquisition
Scripture Alone
Sun, Mar 4, 2018
Children of War 95
Wed, Jan 2, 2018
Broken Together
Fri, Dec 8, 2017
Deceived by the truth
Wed, Nov 29, 2017
Sun, Oct 8, 2017
Interpret Scripture
Sat, Sep 23, 2017
Omran ● Abdullah
Tue, Sep 19, 2017
Least of these
Wed, Sep 6, 2017
Children of War
Sat, Aug 12, 2017
My Encouragement
Tue, Jul 4, 2017
In our rut
Sun, Jul 2, 2017
Holding Jobs
Sun, Jul 2, 2017
Preparing to contend
Thu, Jun 29, 2017
Sun, May 7, 2017
Kids and Parents
Thu, Apr 27, 2017
Naming Names
Sun, Feb 25, 2017
Thu, Sep 8, 2016
Do not compromise
Sat, Mar 12, 2016
Encouraging Jerks
Tue, Feb 28, 2016

This site is an effort by a “Brokenhearted old man basking in the grace of the Lord” who is attempting to reconcile with his family. He has remained faithful to his wife, but is guilty of bringing financial hardship, with its related difficulties, to his family.

This is an attempt to be frank and clear about what it is to be obedient to the Lord, offer grace toward each other, and to love one another. Since communications from me to my family and extended family is typically unacknowledged, this is an attempt to break through those barriers, as an act of love, to reconcile with some or all of my immediate and extended family. Some reconciliation has occurred. I am pursuing all.

If nothing else, I ask that you view the “Naming Names” video at: /2017-02-25


Communications from my wife has been little to none and is censored.

The legally mandated access to my children has been ignored for almost a year. See the voicemail section. It appears that contending for a reconciled family is considered as bringing a hardship to my kids.

My father-in-law has agreed that the Lord commands us to reconcile, but has added additional terms before he will return to the table. The challenge presented to him from Matthew 5:24 is not acknowledged.

The pastor where my family attends has been evasive and requested no further communications from me.

The leadership, pastors and elders, of the PCA that have been challenged on Scripture and PCA doctrine, refuse to respond.

What the institutional churches involved are doing is called shunning. It is characteristic of a cult, as can be seen with Mormons, and Jehovah's Witnesses. The PCA is proving to be no different. It would be a joy to see that change.


I can be found and contacted via email at It is not a hard email address to remember and has been stable for just shy of 20 years. Dialog is welcomed.

To contact my wife or father-in-law see

To contact either church see or

The Kozlowski Family ● An Attempt at Restoration ● Family.Kozlowski
Recent Voicemails ● Yes the list is long
1Co 4:10 We are fools for Christ's sake, but you are wise in Christ. We are weak, but you are strong. You are held in honor, but we in disrepute. To the present hour we hunger and thirst, we are poorly dressed and buffeted and homeless, and we labor, working with our own hands. When reviled, we bless; when persecuted, we endure; when slandered, we entreat. We have become, and are still, like the scum of the world, the refuse of all things.
# Time PDF
1 Fri Oct 11, 2019   Call attempt #774 - Day 1,132 - Request to lower the barrier between us
2 Thu Oct 10, 2019   Call attempt #773 - Day 1,131 - South Park - Assange - Business
3 Wed Oct 9, 2019   Call attempt #772 - Day 1,130 - Gonzalo was interrupted by his son
4 Tue Oct 8, 2019   Call attempt #771 - Day 1,129 - A short message
5 Mon Oct 7, 2019   Call attempt #770 - Day 1,128 - Talking with Julia
6 Fri Oct 4, 2019   Call attempt #769 - Day 1,125 - Another message about talking with young ladies and how much I love my wife
7 Thu Oct 3, 2019   Call attempt #768 - Day 1,124 - Dialog with Alejandro Krajewski - There is more than one of us
8 Wed Oct 2, 2019   Call attempt #767 - Day 1,123 - Fatigue is setting in
9 Tue Oct 1, 2019   Call attempt #766 - Day 1,122 - My “Unplanned” night
10 Fri Sep 27, 2019 Call attempt #765 - Day 1,118 - $2,664 is on the way to you - The Invenco G6-300 Saga - Is this another...

My “Unplanned” night

Mon, Sep 30, 2019

Please watch the last minute.

Tirzah, I’m open to dialog – Today I shared the joy of Matthew 5:44

Sat, Aug 10, 2019

I’ve known Eve for years and now I met Adam

Sun, Aug 4, 2019

Father's Day - Acts 20:20 - Project Veritas and the Pinterest Whistleblower Video

Sun, Jun 16, 2019

Unambiguous celebration of my wife, our anniversary, and continued appeal for reconciliation - I suggest an important read for my kids

Sun, May 19, 2019

Inspired by Leo: My Souvenirs, Seeking Reconciliation without Retribution

Thu, May 2, 2019

Easter 2019 Appeal to my Family

Sun, Apr 21, 2019

To a Sweet 16 from a Christian Dad

Sun, Apr 7, 2019

For a follower of the Lord Jesus Christ, proclaiming to them obedience to the Lord as seen in the Bible is not well accepted in some areas. However, for a Christian dad to love his daughter, there is no other choice.

Habakkuk and Fiddler on the Roof

Sun, Mar 24, 2019

In years past I found great joy and wonder in the movie version of “Fiddler on the Roof”. Many years later, wonder of wonders…

The Artistry of John Painter – A dialog on Reconciliation

Tue, Feb 25, 2019

For a software guy with no talent in art to have a friendship with a remarkably gifted artist was a joy. This is a celebration of the art of John Painter, a friend, and an encouragement to reconcile.

Review of David Tulis and Nooganomics Radio Program on Divorce

Wed, Nov 21, 2018

Tie Offer

Fri, Jun 15, 2018

George asked for one of my ties.

Reconciliation in Syria, why not in the US?

Tue, Apr 10, 2018

Notebook Offer

Tue, Apr 3, 2018

My Move and Reconciliation Plans

Sun, Mar 25, 2018

Jim Cross - Scripture Alone

Sun, Mar 4, 2018

I have repeatedly proclaimed that I am a follower of the Lord Jesus Christ and trust His Scripture alone as my authority.

Children of War 5 ● Go and do likewise

Tue, Feb 26, 2018

Then there is the 3-year-old that comments that he doesn’t know his dad.

A bit of my history - You cannot serve God and money

Tue, Jan 15, 2018

I have often wanted to know about my parent’s history. This is to offer my kids and others a bit of my history.

The conclusion is Matthew 6:24 “You cannot serve God and money.”

Children of War 95 ● Please, never stop doing what you are doing

Wed, Jan 2, 2018

This hit me very hard today. I hope you find the encouragement in it.

Love, Cowardice, Boldness; A Waterboarding Offer

Sun, Dec 17, 2017

Please note that this is dead serious as described and an open offer.

PLEASE Ask my wife

Sat, Dec 2, 2017

A serious request, in less than 2 minutes, to anyone who can contact my wife!

Do you bow the knee to the Lord or the Institution

Sat, Nov 25, 2017

An offer of dialog to the congregation, not the leadership.

What model does the religious leadership follow, past and present?

Sun, Nov 19, 2017

On October 31st of 2017, the very day marking the 500th anniversary of Martin Luther’s proclamation of the 95 Thesis, around 8 am I got a loud knock at my door from a detective from the Cleveland Police Department.

Update on Marriage, Divorce, Remarriage, Adultery, Mercy

Sun, Oct 29, 2017

If adultery is a new marriage, then the new marriage is not continued adultery.

Marriage, Divorce, Remarriage, Adultery, Mercy

Sat, Oct 14, 2017

This might make you very uncomfortable, or you might find the Lord’s marvelous mercy.

Institutional Fraud

Sat, Oct 7, 2017

This is a continuation of a challenge set before Covenant Presbyterian Church in Chattanooga, Tennessee last week which is a part of an effort to both restore a family and contend for the faith.

Challenge to Covenant Presbyterian Church

Sat, Sep 30, 2017

Does “test everything” (1Th 5:21) not include the institution?

Farmers Market, Store, Marriage

Sat, Sep 30, 2017

Jim Cross - Interpret Scripture with Scripture

Sat, Sep 23, 2017

There is a lot of content on this website in reference to Jim Cross, Sr., my father-in-law. It is now time to be specific, point by point. This first 10 minutes is simply the low hanging fruit.

Torture, Pastors, Elders, and Reconciliation

Thu, Sep 14, 2017

Luke 23:34 “…Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing. …”

Jim Cross and the least of these

Wed, Sep 6, 2017

Matthew 25:40 And the King will answer them, 'Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.'

Reconcile Salvo 1 ● I want my kids to know

Sat, Sep 2, 2017

Discernment, Contending, Reconciling

Tue, Jul 18, 2017

5 years after the worst day in my life

Wed, Jul 12, 2017

Benton Falls and a Serious look at Reconciliation

Sun, Jun 25, 2017

While the frame of reference is a hike to up Benton Falls, in Polk County, Tennessee, the subject matter is reconciliation, and specifically with my father-in-law, a PCA Elder, Jim Cross.

Gal 2:14 “before them all”

Sat, Jun 24, 2017

Jim Cross - Man to Man

Sat, May 20, 2017


Sun, May 7, 2017

The 276 girls in Chibok, Nigeria have long had a tug on my heart. The events of the last many hours has had a real impact on me.

Jim Cross Invitation

Sat, Apr 29, 2017

Broken heart offer

Sat, Apr 15, 2017

Attempting to reach my kids

Mon, Apr 10, 2017

Reconcile with Jim Cross

Thu, Mar 16, 2017

Naming Names

Sun, Feb 25, 2017

This is my effort to reconcile. I hope you will find an example of a man who has received the Lord’s mercy and is striving for mutual mercy with others.

Offer Grace

Sat, Jan 27, 2017