Please, Please, Please take careful note that I am not trying to belittle your dad but reconcile with him. Please read all of our email today and not just what you can find that looks bad (http://family.kozlowski.org/Email-2017-09-05+1). Love contends (Lev 19:17). Contention needs to be done with gentleness and respect (1Pe3:15), but also it must be based on the truth. Your dad offered a reference that is not creditable, and I offer the Scripture. I want to share the Scripture with him, not innuendo. Perhaps we can do that together also! I love you!