This is really ridiculous. You might recall that I have nine kids, and they are the same as yours. I haven’t spoken with them in over a year and you seem to be the barrier, in spite of the Lord’s commands and also the state’s. Please offer a suggestion how I can talk with my kids. I need to point them to the Lord, and His ways about reconciliation, obedience to parents, and marriage ends only with death. I love you. Please open the door to reconciliation.