I have had dialogs with two others for some time about their adulterous children. I spoke with both of them today on the issue. That seeded a long voicemail. I’m going to share it with our kids.

Please remember, that marriage is defined by the Lord and not an institution. It begins with sex and ends with death, such as noted in Mark 10. If a wife abandons a husband, as is our case, the wife is commanded by the Lord to reconcile (1Co7:11). Turning to the state is spitting in the face of the Lord (1Co6). The Lord looks at state decreed divorce and laughs (Psalm 2). Therefore, Dorothy-Jane is my wife, and adulteress, or dead. There is no other option in Scripture. I am not an adulterer and remain committed to Dorothy-Jane alone for the rest of my days, even if I out live her.

There is abundant evidence from Christian and secular sources that the removal of a dad from the home vastly increases lifelong issues in the children, including depression, drug use, their own marital issues, and suicide. This does not have to be in our case as at least the dad has for over six years pursued only reconciliation. The dad is the one who has used the Scripture as the reference and proclaimed it. Jim Cross has blatantly twisted it, Chris Bitterman and Render Caines ignore it. Reconciliation is still being pursued with all of them. If they have any love for my kids, they would set the model of obedience to the Lord’s clear command in Matthew 5:24 and come to the table for reconciliation.

When it comes to my wife, let me remind you of my claim: “The person who loves you is not your dad it is me!” (http://2017-12-02+1) Note that the video is publicly available.

A while back I mentioned a dialog with the group “Wicked Shepherds”, which you find on July 30, 2018. They have a very good exposition of Scripture on numerous subjects. However, in my dialog with them I bring to the forefront the Lord’s command to reconcile. They have also left the table. It seems the desire for vengeance is overwhelming and will blind people to the Lord’s command to love as vengeance is His (Deu 32:35, Rom 12:19, Heb 10:30). However, with the three gentlemen I mentioned, with my kids, and most importantly my wife, I seek only reconciliation without retribution. I do this because I do believe what the Scripture clearly teaches, and because I remain in love with my kids, and my wife.

So after over six years, and after about two years of being prevented from speaking with my young kids in violation of man’s law, I am still here and available to anyone interested in sharing my quest for reconciliation. If that includes any of you, especially my younger kids who will probably not see this or even hear about it, please let’s talk, let’s fully reconcile the whole family. This is what followers of the Lord Jesus Christ do. If you are not His follower, please be clear about that in words not just deeds.

I love you all, especially my wife, Dorothy-Jane Kozlowski!