I was asked about how difficult it would be if my wife and I were to reconcile. Difficult, but with grace very doable! Then it was expanded on what I would be willing to give up. To some is may seem trivial, but my statement was that I would be willing to give up garlic and cocoa.

I calculated that I am now eating my body weight in garlic every decade. I contend that it would be unwise to give it up as there is strong evidence it contributes to my state of health. Cocoa on the other hand is not the same, but also not as potentially offensive as garlic. However, the fundamental point is that these things are secondary. There is nothing that should bar us for reconciliation. Pride is a barrier, but grace can overcome that. I remain willing.

Dorothy-Jane, I love you!