It has been a joy often to encourage other men to be obedient to the Lord when it comes to the relationship with their wives. Thus far it is not hard to find men who claim Christ but willing to abandon their wife. However, I am finding some, thus far few, but at least a few who will say that even with the flaws in their wives, and more importantly the flaws in themselves, they will live in obedience to the Lord and love their wives even when that is not returned.

Then there are the cases when there is an admission on the part of both, mutual forgiveness is offered, reconciliation occurs, and joy follows. I have seen it happen. My choice is to pursue that. Can you explain your choice to our kids? Can you do the same with the Lord? Reconciliation is still on the table. I love you!