There is a lot of content on this website in reference to Jim Cross, Sr., my father-in-law. It is now time to be specific, point by point. This first 10 minutes is simply the low hanging fruit.
If we can’t come to an understanding on such basic issues, then my suggestion of a millstone is applicable.
The reference article is: “Divorce & Remarriage – By David Instone-Brewer [Rightly Dividing the Word 100]”. I CANNOT recommend it.